Best Man Wedding Speeches

When you’re trying to write a best man wedding speech, it can seem more than a little intimidating to have a room full of people listening to you share your memories. Giving the speech can be a great time to tell the bride and groom how much you appreciate them, though, and it shouldn’t be scary. Here are a few easy pointers to keep in mind that should make your speech writing less of a chore and more of a pleasure.

First off, you want to make sure that everyone in the room is on the same page. Explain your relationship with the groom and how you ended up being his best man. If you don’t give a proper back story, much of the crowded might just end up confused and wondering who exactly is talking. When you’re done introducing yourself, make a point to share how grateful you are to have been chosen as the best man. A best man’s wedding speech should be humble and appreciative, so let the couple know that it’s an honor to be in the position you are in.

Next, share one (and only one) memory that you have about the couple. Good best man wedding speeches are conscious of time, so don’t try to delve into every recollection you have. You might be tempted to tell an old story about the groom or a special experience that the two of you shared, but this will end up in half the crowd feeling lost. When you tell a story about both the bride and groom, the entire room will feel included and be able to connect with what you’re saying. A good memory about the couple—whether funny or sentimental—will get the audience connected with you and ready to listen.

Finally, end your speech with a heartfelt message. While you may have been addressing the whole room throughout your speech, turn to the couple and cater your message to them. Let the couple know that you’re excited about their future and ready to see what’s in store for them. The best man’s wedding speech is certainly meant to entertain family, friends, and more, but the last few sentences should be only for two people—the bride and groom. You’ll want to make sure this last bit is planned in advance because you want to say the perfect words. Wish them well, express your gratitude, and end your speech in a way that will get the couple smiling (if not crying tears of joy).

As a best man, your wedding speech can be not only a memorable moment in the life of the couple, but your life as well. Be heartfelt and genuine and follow these tips. You’ll find it easy to create a speech that will be remembered for many years to come.